don't hurt anyone |
“When you blame others, what
you are really saying is what is inside of you can’t be fixed, so you have no
control of your own happiness. Therefore, you have made the conscience choice
to give focus and fuel to a bad situation that will take you nowhere and give
you nothing, but ignorance and pain.”
“When someone is hurt and
we hear ourselves saying
"I don't understand, why"
PAUSE
At the pause, ask "What am I missing here ?"
At the pause, stop judging, stop reacting,
get curious and believe their hurt state
At the pause, tap into their heart and mind.we hear ourselves saying
"I don't understand, why"
PAUSE
At the pause, ask "What am I missing here ?"
At the pause, stop judging, stop reacting,
get curious and believe their hurt state
Now see how this pause transforms the conversation.”
"Many would hold their tongue to avoid having another feel hurt.
Many would avoid having a difficult conversation with another in
order to preserve their happiness.
Many would not stand for what they care for so as to protect
someones fragile view of the world."
We all have our own minds as well, and thought
processes. Different attitudes and outlooks on life. We each feel insecure in certain aspects, and because we can't read
each other's minds
, when we feel like we are under threat by someone dear to
us, we will inevitably be hurt by it. This is unfortunately part of the human
condition. We
are not one mind, but many. And as a result, we hurt each other without
intending to and become hurt by others.
don't hurt anyone |
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