Saturday, 12 November 2016

Don't Hurt Other People.

don't hurt anyone
“When you blame others, what you are really saying is what is inside of you can’t be fixed, so you have no control of your own happiness. Therefore, you have made the conscience choice to give focus and fuel to a bad situation that will take you nowhere and give you nothing, but ignorance and pain.”


“When someone is hurt and
we hear ourselves saying
"I don't understand, why"
PAUSE
At the pause, ask "What am I missing here ?"
At the pause, stop judging, stop reacting,
get curious and believe their hurt state
At the pause, tap into their heart and mind.
Now see how this pause transforms the conversation.” 

"Many would hold their tongue to avoid having another feel hurt.
Many would avoid having a difficult conversation with another in order to preserve their happiness.
Many would not stand for what they care for so as to protect someones fragile view of the world."
We all have our own minds as well, and thought processes. Different attitudes and outlooks on life. We each feel insecure  in certain aspects, and because we can't read each other's minds
don't hurt anyone
, when we feel like we are under threat by someone dear to us, we will inevitably be hurt by it. This is unfortunately part of the human condition. 
We are not one mind, but many. And as a result, we hurt each other without intending to and become hurt by others.

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